Penn Badgley and Domino Kirke Faced Marital Strain After Miscarriages
Penn Badgley and his wife, Domino Kirke, faced significant marital strain following two heartbreaking miscarriages. In his recent book, “Crushmore: Essays on Love, Loss, and Coming-of-Age,” the actor opened up about their experience.
Challenges of Loss
Badgley, aged 39, described these losses as overwhelming. He noted that the couple reached a critical point where separation seemed imminent. They felt isolated, dealing with their grief in a culture that often shies away from discussing miscarriages. Badgley stated, “This was our second loss together. A time when it did not feel as though the cycle would break.”
Need for Open Dialogue
During a recent appearance on the “Totally Booked” podcast, Badgley emphasized the importance of addressing miscarriage. “That sort of loss is really common,” he said, urging people to start conversations about these experiences. He remarked that such losses are universally painful, yet many people feel they are not allowed to express that pain.
Parenthood Journey
Despite their challenges, Badgley and Kirke have welcomed a son named James, born in August 2020. The couple announced their pregnancy with twins in February, drawing attention to the happiness that followed their prior grief. Kirke, 41, shared her astonishment on Instagram, calling spontaneous twins “beyond magical.”
Family Dynamics
- James – Born August 2020
- Twin sons – Born September 2025
- Cassius – Kirke’s son from a previous relationship
Reflecting on their journey, Badgley humorously noted, “I feel like I am — and I mean this with love — but I feel like I’m drowning in children.” He highlighted that while it’s harder to revisit feelings of loss, he and Kirke are grateful to have remained together despite the pressure to separate.
Relationship Timeline
Badgley and Kirke began their relationship in 2014 and married in February 2017. They officially wed again in June of the same year at a New York courthouse. Their enduring commitment has been pivotal as they navigate the complexities of parenthood and personal loss.
