Survivor Shares Journey to Intimacy After Abduction by Paedophile at 14
Elizabeth Smart, a survivor of abduction, has spoken candidly about her journey to intimacy following her harrowing experience as a teenager. At the age of 14, Smart was kidnapped by Brian David Mitchell and Wanda Barzee, enduring nine months of horrific abuse. This traumatic period is the focus of a new true crime documentary on Netflix.
Kidnapping and Abuse
Smart was taken from her home in Utah, where she suffered severe physical and emotional torture. Her story took a dramatic turn when she was ultimately rescued after a police officer recognized her during an outing with her captors.
Overcoming Trauma and Embracing Intimacy
Years after her captivity, Elizabeth Smart has built a loving family and is married with three children. In various interviews, she emphasizes the significance of choice in her life, especially regarding her relationship with her husband. Smart shared that intimacy is meaningful, stating, “It’s not just something I’m willing to share with everyone.”
Establishing Trust and Boundaries
Smart discussed the essential elements of a healthy intimate relationship. She highlighted the importance of mutual respect, trust, and clear communication. “You’re the one setting the boundaries,” she explained, adding that true partners respect each other’s limits during intimate moments.
Seeking Help for Trauma
She advocates for those who struggle with intimacy due to past trauma to seek professional help. Smart believes that both therapists and sex coaches can provide valuable support to rebuild intimate relationships. “There is nothing wrong with going to a therapist,” she noted, emphasizing the importance of intimacy in life.
Positive Outlook on Life
In a recent interview, Smart expressed her hope for those facing similar struggles, stating that even after experiencing terrible events, one can still find happiness and fulfillment. “I hope it brings comfort that there are happy endings,” she concluded.
You can view Smart’s complete story in the documentary “Kidnapped: Elizabeth Smart,” now streaming on Netflix.
If you or someone you know has been affected by issues similar to those discussed in this article, support is available. Contact The Survivors Trust at 08088 010 818 for confidential assistance.