Joe Marler Credits Wife for Support During Suicidal Crisis After ‘Meltdown’
Joe Marler, a former England rugby player, opened up about his mental health challenges following a profound “meltdown” that left him contemplating suicide. He credited his wife, Daisy, for her unwavering support during this difficult time.
Joe Marler’s Journey Through Mental Health Struggles
The 35-year-old athlete is currently participating in the BBC’s Celebrity Traitors, where he is known for playing as a “Faithful.” His fellow participants include notable figures like Sir Stephen Fry, Jonathan Ross, and Kate Garraway.
During a recent episode of Jamie Laing’s Great Company podcast, Marler candidly discussed how a conflict with Daisy sparked his suicidal thoughts back in 2018. The couple, who married in 2017 and have four children, experienced a disagreement after Daisy expressed discontent over Joe not swerving to avoid a squirrel while driving after a school run.
Facing the Crisis
- Marler described experiencing a complete meltdown following the argument.
- He shared, “Then the thoughts of not wanting to be here anymore really took hold of me.”
- This moment prompted Marler to seek professional help for his mental health.
Marler expressed feelings of despair, questioning if the world would be better off without him. He realized he needed support, stating he had been searching for answers from 2016 to 2018. That realization led him to consult a psychiatrist.
Support and Recovery
On the day following his emotional crisis, which he referred to as “Squirrel Gate,” Marler was scheduled to play a game against Saracens at Wembley. It was in talking to the team doctor that Marler first recognized the need for assistance, emphasizing the importance of mental health awareness.
The Reality of Mental Health
Statistics indicate that in the UK, a life is lost to suicide every 90 minutes. This issue transcends societal boundaries, affecting individuals across various backgrounds. Men are statistically three times more likely to take their own lives compared to women, highlighting the urgent need for open conversations about mental health.
Post-therapy and with the help of antidepressants, Marler reported working towards a better mental state. His experience reinforces the message: “You’re Not Alone.” Sharing personal stories can help break the stigma surrounding mental health issues.
For those in need of support, several organizations are available to assist individuals dealing with mental health challenges. Seeking help is a critical first step in the journey to recovery.
